How To Get Rid of a Narcissist With 5 Sentences
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Be honest and direct!
I have dated a few women in my days and have been married for 20 years.
But my relationships have always been monogamous and longer.
I have worked in a government in one of the more egalitarian countries in the world.
That means that the majority of employees are women including managers.
I have worked alongside a psychologist who taught me all about narcissism.
I have seen narcissism at work and in my relationships.
Here are the most POWERFUL sentences YOU can use to get rid of a Narcissist quickly from your PRIVATE life.
1. You Can Forget About Me Ever Changing!
Narcissists love high social status and suffer from low self-esteem.
This makes them put on a facade with only expensive clothes, vacations, cars, and houses.
If you point out to them that you are the very obstacle to getting to fame and fortune they will leave you quickly.
Because you are their means of getting what they want.
2. I Know You Are After Fame And Money!
Always be direct with a narcissist.
By being direct and exposing their end goal you tear down their facade.
Since they suffer from low self-esteem they will run away from you.
3. Do You Think I Believe Anything You Say?
You are pointing out that you know they are lying.
Narcissists always hide their end game so that they get to their goal.
By being direct with a narcissist you are again exposing them.
4. I See Right Through You!
You are telling them you know their deepest secrets.
You are telling them you see their lack of confidence.
They will leave anyone exposing their poor self-esteem.
5. I Know Who You Are?
You are indicating you are watching them triggering their paranoia to be exposed for what they know they are.
Their lack of self-esteem will never accept being exposed.
They will be afraid of you since you know they lack confidence and that they are putting on a facade.
They will run away from you since they do not control you.
What is Narcissism in short
Narcissists have low self-esteem.
Low self-esteem is high in neuroticism or emotionality.
When you trigger their negative emotions they automatically seek control.
You see this in yourself and others when you or they freak out.
Since you have told them these sentences to their face directly.
You are telling them they will never have control over you.
Therefore they will leave to gain control over their low self-esteem.
In my own experience
I have used these sentences myself.
They have worked every time.
The reason is that you are not beating around the bush and being direct and straight with them.
A narcissist always hides their agenda until they are in power.
Then they become ruthless and eliminate all threats to their power.
You will never change a narcissist.
Please run the other way.